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Closure 2

Posted on Wednesday, May 23 at 6:20 pm

Ladies and gentlemen, put your hands together and welcome jassy..

“Uh hump. Good morning/ afternoon to everyone. Today, i would like to share with you what i feel this past few days. Things have changed. Friends do not hurt each other by words. Even if you want to treat it as a joke, there is a limit to it. Some things we can joke about, some things we cant. We can say jokes, ya i agree. But before you joke about people, you should analyse what can be treated as jokes and what you cant. Some people may think that friendship aint important. But some cherish each and every friendships. Because such people cherish their friendship very much, they treat every words that is coming out from their friends’ mouth seriously. If not, what is all this “trust” we are talking about? Mutual respect is also important in a friendship. Friends will not accept any false claims used on them.

Friends do not hurt each other by words. They said they want the friendship back, when they are doing more things to hurt you. So now, they were telling me that the term they used was just a joke. Ok. if things stop there, i can still reflect on my behaviour and attitude. and i may have admitted that “hey, i think im a little petty”. But the continuation of scolding me in the blogs was a really a stop-point for our friendship. Cause if you guys want the friendship back, you will not continue to complain about friends etc. Dont you think that it’s tensing the friendship? If not for the blog thing, i would have forgive and forget. and who knows, we could be together again.

Their actions have totally disappointed me.

I dont think I was wrong for not following them to “pon” sports day. I have my stand and my personal choice to follow or not. Friends do not force their friends for doing what their friends dont want to do. Perhaps i was wrong to be petty on the remarks. Before judging who is right or wrong, please compare who started the scar, and who have harmed another more. I’m not going to say who is right or wrong. I’m not going to influence any of you to accept what i have done. Only outsiders can have a clearer view on this issue.

I have other wonderful things to blog about instead of stucking my life cause of this incident. Through this, everyone learns. I learnt. What about you? Hope this will be a closure for this matter and we shall not say anything. If they continue to blog or what not, that’s their life, and i’m not going to be bothered. Cause my blog is not a place to comment negatively about people. Like what calyn told me, dont let anger eat up my heart.

Same to the friends i’ve made for these 5 months. This 5 months was a really good experience for me. Dont worry. I will reminisce the happy moments we had together. Life has to move on. I need to move on, you too, have to move on. But if u keep dwelling over the past, i cant do anything.”

No one can judge if one is christ-like/ holy, only God will know the answer.
Matthew 7-[Judging Others] 1“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.