Archive for May 2007

If you remember to catch Channel U 8pm yesterday, you should have watched CSS2. The insights of the first 4 rounds of eliminations. Saw the happy faces when they got into the next round, and saw their depressed faces when their names werent called out. It’s just another round of reality show. If you are not competent, you will have to say bye bye. Now, the judging criteria has changed. 70% of the results depend on the judges, while the remaining 30% will based on their popularity through number of sms. I find that this revised version of judging is much better as they will pluck out the most potential singers, instead of those who got scrape through just because of their popularity.

Potential is not equivalent to popularity.

Like the previous “非常Superband”, we had non-chinese people joining the competition like Juz-B. This time 校园Superstar2, we had at least 4 non-chinese students who plucked up their courage to challenge on another language that they seldom use. There was one muslim boy that really gave me the greatest impression. The moment he stepped on the stage, he was soo nervous. Eyes rolling everywhere, mouth cant stop moving. He was so tensed up that he didnt have a chance to sing what he had prepared. Poor Boy.

Besides joining this competition with friends, some prefer to go with their siblings. There were this two sisters who went to the competition together, but got eliminated out together. sad for them. But, that’s a part and parcel of life. When we failed, we learn.

Some joined the competition to 撞撞胆, but some want to 一曲成名. It’s good to do what we want to do. Since we are still young, we still have to chance to explore the world and do what we wish to do. Youths are full of energy and vibrance. In the process of exploring, we will be able to learn new things.

And now, we got the Top 20 contestants. Some have the potential, some have their look. This is just another round for us to witness if the potentials will get the title of Campus Superstar2 or the good-looking ones.

Have you been living in a purpose-less life and at some peak of your life, you find that life is boring and you would wish something good will happen to you? There’s a saying goes “the future lies in your hands”. You can make or spoil your future and life in your own hands. Instead of sitting down in the cosy little chair, thinking “why am i so unlucky”, why not get up and do something about it?

On Wednesday, was chatting with Shirley about some problems that we both faced. It’s just like rainbow after the storm. After much perseverance, we survived and are doing good now.Why is it so? Cause we are thinking positively although it seemed to be like the end of the world. She told me that we were all blessed. Then, i told her this story.

Although it was somehow tough for me to adapt to the new environment, but i survived. Although sea current may be strong, but i will try my utmost best to swim ashore.

Adaptability is the key to success

I think Adaptability is the best skill to succeed in life. Given a new environment, you will need to change your habits in order to mix well in the new environment. We have to be flexible and “elastic” to changes. For example, your company has a major change of people in the management. And the new boss is stricter and more demanding than your previous one. OBVIOUSLY you will need to listen to what the new boss says and follows what his instructions although you might not agree with him. Cause afterall, he’s your boss- your money tree. But if you cant adapt with the changes, you might get sacked.

I’m exceptionally happy when Santa Claus came and gave me alot of presents. Although it’s not december yet, but i got many many presents yesterday(24 may). Cousin Niko smsed me that she will be giving me her clothes as she needs to move house. And i thought it will be 1 or 2 bags of clothes. When Cousin Niko came, i was super shocked. It was not 1 or 2 bags, but was..

Quite a number of clothes are brand new. I have many things.. from clothes, to shoes, to gifts, to scented sticks, to earrings and necklance, to wires and beads for DIY jewellery. I think i can stop shopping this year. From the amount of beads and wires i got, i can set up a Jewellery E-shop. All along, i got this plan of setting up business online. But not now. Will do it after my major exams. Nice clothes which are unsuitable for me will be given away to friends.

Showcasing 1/8 stuff that I’ve got:

 
Today, we went PU Seminar at Raffles Marina. Adam Khoo was our speaker and talked to us about the Pathways to Success. I find it motivational and useful. At least from the talk, i learnt to plan for my future, the proper etiquette for Job Interview and the skills to write a good resume.

Early in the morning, i took the same bus to school. When i entered the double-decked bus, i saw a girl wearing sch uniform and no other people from my school. Actually, we were told to wear school top and jeans. When more and more schoolmates got up the bus, they gave me a strange look, “hey, why is this girl wearing pe tee with jeans“. To tell you the fact, i’m really damn scared that i remembered the wrong day to wear pe tee n jeans. Then, i hurriedly recall whether today is friday, and whether today i am suppose to wear this way. I was also thinking of going back home to change to my school uniform if today isnt the day. Then y hong msg me whether we are suppose to dress like that today. So, finally i was relieved that “hey. correct. today supposed to wear this way. I’m correct. Today is friday.”

It was a short journey from school to Raffles Marina at Tuas. For the whole session from 9-5, i ate 3 times. tea break- lunch- tea break. Life was like a tai-tai. It’s kinda tired of being tai tai. Once a week still okay. But it is like everyday, i dont think i can take it. Besides that, i will be horizontally challenged.

During lunch time, we went out for free boat ride. But when we reached the jetty, there wasnt any “free boat ride” as what our teachers told us. They cheated our feelings. So, i went to the bowling alley to see other schoolmates play bowling. We were entitled free bowling session. I didnt participate but supported sherlynn when it was her turn to play. After lunch, we went back to the ballroom to continue the session. We were told to plan our future- the courses we want to go, what kind of job we want, places to work at, salary etc.

After deep and quality time of thinking, i found out what i really want. From some of the courses i choose, i need to get good grades for my GP. But reviewing the progess of my GP, i dont think i can make it. But with belief and aspiration, i will make the IMPOSSIBLE to POSSIBLE. my friends, lets start dreaming of what we really want. Although you may think that it’s impossible to achieve, but setting such goals allows you to work hard and aim for the goal. We were also told to write down our passion, our talents.

On the way back school, the bus driver was travelling a longer distance back to school. Cause when we came to Raffles Marina from school, it took us around 20 minutes to reach. But way back school, we took more than that. Instead of using PIE back to school, the driver used AYE instead. Somemore, the AYE expressway was jammed. When we reached Jurong Town Hall Road, it was jammed too. Here jam there jam, everywhere is jam jam. Can someone buy a street directory for the bus driver uncle?

Today is also “Eat With Your Family Day” and also my mum and dad wedding anniversary. We had zhu2 chao3 together. It was a rare chance for all of us to sit down together for a meal. When we went back home, i shared my Peach Bacardi i bought at vivo with my family. Taste nice.

And i tried “whatever“. “Whatever” is a non-carbonated drink while “anything” is a carbonated drink.

By the way, i would encourage you guys to sign up a chatango account. You can chat with your friends through the chat box. Something like msn. (sounds kinda useless cause you can always chat with your friends in msn) But, it will be helpful if you paste the chatbox in your E-shopping website. Customers can drop a msg to you about the products. Try It! It’s FREE

Ladies and gentlemen, put your hands together and welcome jassy..

“Uh hump. Good morning/ afternoon to everyone. Today, i would like to share with you what i feel this past few days. Things have changed. Friends do not hurt each other by words. Even if you want to treat it as a joke, there is a limit to it. Some things we can joke about, some things we cant. We can say jokes, ya i agree. But before you joke about people, you should analyse what can be treated as jokes and what you cant. Some people may think that friendship aint important. But some cherish each and every friendships. Because such people cherish their friendship very much, they treat every words that is coming out from their friends’ mouth seriously. If not, what is all this “trust” we are talking about? Mutual respect is also important in a friendship. Friends will not accept any false claims used on them.

Friends do not hurt each other by words. They said they want the friendship back, when they are doing more things to hurt you. So now, they were telling me that the term they used was just a joke. Ok. if things stop there, i can still reflect on my behaviour and attitude. and i may have admitted that “hey, i think im a little petty”. But the continuation of scolding me in the blogs was a really a stop-point for our friendship. Cause if you guys want the friendship back, you will not continue to complain about friends etc. Dont you think that it’s tensing the friendship? If not for the blog thing, i would have forgive and forget. and who knows, we could be together again.

Their actions have totally disappointed me.

I dont think I was wrong for not following them to “pon” sports day. I have my stand and my personal choice to follow or not. Friends do not force their friends for doing what their friends dont want to do. Perhaps i was wrong to be petty on the remarks. Before judging who is right or wrong, please compare who started the scar, and who have harmed another more. I’m not going to say who is right or wrong. I’m not going to influence any of you to accept what i have done. Only outsiders can have a clearer view on this issue.

I have other wonderful things to blog about instead of stucking my life cause of this incident. Through this, everyone learns. I learnt. What about you? Hope this will be a closure for this matter and we shall not say anything. If they continue to blog or what not, that’s their life, and i’m not going to be bothered. Cause my blog is not a place to comment negatively about people. Like what calyn told me, dont let anger eat up my heart.

Same to the friends i’ve made for these 5 months. This 5 months was a really good experience for me. Dont worry. I will reminisce the happy moments we had together. Life has to move on. I need to move on, you too, have to move on. But if u keep dwelling over the past, i cant do anything.”

No one can judge if one is christ-like/ holy, only God will know the answer.
Matthew 7-[Judging Others1“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

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I thought i can swallow everything, and ignore everything that happened. But, your blog entry really LMAO.

O.. you dont know what’s LMAO? IT’S LAUGH MY ASS OUT!

So you claimed that It’s not “her” fault, but mine?

ok, let’s think again. Who was the one who said me “anti social“? I dont think friends will say such comment to their friends. so, rethink again. MY FAULT? HAHA.. if you think its still my fault, i have nothing to say, but it lets me consider your level of intelligence.

It’s all started on Sports Day last friday. As usual, i was with my same gang of friends, watching the sports day. Shirley and her friends were also sitting with us. Halfway, 2 of them said that they want to go home. wanna sneak off from sports day, and asked me to go with them too. Isnt it obvious to bring your bag and go out the gate? Ya, you can say that I’m timid, I’m coward cause i scared teacher will catch me and i will be dealt with disciplinary actions. So, i told them “you guys wanna go, den you go lo. i’m staying in sch”. Then this was what she told me “you very anti social leh. argh.. you want to stay here, then stay here la. we going off. bye.” I didnt expect you to say “anti-social” such irresponsible term. If i go against my will, and go with you guys.. what if we were caught? i have to answer for my own actions right? It’s not a matter of anti-social anot. I’m too lazy to explain if they ask me why i dont want to run away with them. Just treat it as “I AM TIMID LIKE A MOUSE WHO SCARED OF BEING CAUGHT”, Fine?

Perhaps they may think that i will not survive without them, cause they are my usual hangout friends. friends to go lecture with, sit together, move from place to place, lunching together etc. BUT I SURVIVED TODAY, without them!

Who were the ones commented me at first in their blogs and asked me “hey. why you give attitude”. So, Who were the one who made this scar deeper n deeper?

Lesson for the day: Friends dont call their friends “anti social”. If they do, they are not your friend.

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